Getting married can be quite daunting for a man. It is a part of life and something that you have to do without much choice. You are probably quite excited about getting married and looking forward to having a new wife.
Getting to know your wife-to-be is a thrilling experience. You want to know everything about her. When you meet her you may be nervous and cautious not wanting to offend her or lower her opinion of you. You also want to tell her all about yourself so that she can understand you. You want to do things to impress her so that she will feel that you are a good choice.
For every bridegroom getting married is a life changing event. He needs to rearrange his whole life. Now you have to get used to being home in time and giving answers if you are late. You are expected to spend your free time with your wife rather than your friends.
1. BRIDE GROOM – LIVING
If the bridegroom is living alone he needs to ensure that his accommodation is suitable for a family. Now he has to get family accommodation and no longer live in a bachelors pad.
2. ORGANIZE YOUR BEDROOM
So that your wife will feel comfortable. Setup up your kitchen with basic cooking facilities like proper stove, gas connection and other things.
3. HAVE AN ADDITIONAL CUPBOARD
Make place in the closet for her to keep her clothes. Women have lots of clothes so you need to ensure that she has sufficient storage space. If necessary get an additional cupboard.
4. GET A DOUBLE BED
If you have a double bed, good for you, if you don’t then you need to get one.
5. WIFE – YOUR FUTURE HAPPINESS
Introduce your wife to be to all your friends especially the ones you would like to keep in your life. Ensure that she not only gets to know them but also to like them. A lot of your future happiness could depend on this smart move.
6. DISCUSS YOUR PASTTIME & HOBBIES
Discuss your hobbies and pastimes. Make some decisions regarding what is doable after marriage and what is not. If you like bike racing and she doesn’t think it is a good idea as she is not comfortable with the risk, then you need to consider giving up that sport.
7. FIND OUT WHAT SHE CAN COOK
Food interests are an important factor. You need to be mentally prepared for the type of food you will be getting for the rest of your life. Find out what she can cook and tell her what you like to eat so that she can be prepared.
8. FIND OUT WHAT HER INTEREST
For some couples music plays an important part in their life. Find out what her interests are and update her about what you like. If there are some things that she doesn’t like, you would be wise to not listen to it in her presence. It may seem like a small matter but it can be quite irritating.
9. GET RID OF ALL BOYISH STUFF
Get rid of all your boyish stuff – toys, magazines etc. Make your place family friendly.
These are a few tips for the bridegroom that can make a huge difference to your future. They need to be done before your get married and not wait for later.